there is nothing romantic about
- not knowing you’re beautiful
- loving someone until they learn to love themselves
please stop romanticizing low self esteem.
it’s one thing to love a person who happens to have low self esteem
it’s another thing to frame low self esteem as a desirable trait.

Power Structure of Oppression
Yes. Yes. YES.
This is great because it illustrates how those “little” things like jokes and slurs literally support and uphold all forms of oppression. Those things on top don’t come from nowhere.